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hApPy hAlF-nEkKiD tHuRsDaY - sTriP tEaSe

i cOuLd nOt wAiT tO gEt nEkKiD aNd tAkE sOmE pHotOs..

i tHiNk tHe wOrLd wOulD bE a bEtTeR pLaCe iF wE aLl gOt nAkeD aNd sTarTeD hUgGiNg tHe pErSoN nExT 2 U!

i fReakIn lUv U gUyS,

mArCelLO

Spanked by Rachel Kramer Bussel

Nexus Vibro Review for Babeland

Hello my name is Marcello, and I'm an anal snob. Admitting you have a problem is the first step, so I've been told. My problem is that anal toys made specifically for men are getting so advanced that I feel my old favorites will soon be shipped off to the island of misfit toys.

The Nexus Vibro has all the features of the others and then some, such as, a perineum massager (P-tab), vibrates (not all of the others) and RIBBED -  yOu hAvE tO gEt cRazY fOr rIbBeD.  Can I hear a wOoO hOoO!

The vibrating bullet has 5 speeds, and all of them offer a different anal experience. I actually love the pulsed setting. It is like someone is fucking your ass until you are about to have a whole body orgasm, then stops and denies you the pleasure. My submissive nature gets all hot and bothered because of this - simply awesome.

The ribs rock! At least for me, I like the sensation of ribbed toys, they feel great, add another depth of sensation and make my orgasms more intense.

The design is very cool and comfortable, but I do wish it was a little more flexible so it could be used in a seated position. I inserted it while lying on my side and with lots of babeland lube.  As soon as it entered my ass, it slipped into place and started working. After about a 5 minute warm up of relaxing and deep breathing I started feeling the p-waves.  I can not emphasize enough how important adequate lube, relaxation, deep breathing and patience are when using these types of toys, and we can't forget about a clean playground also. 

When I turned on the vibrating bullet, I instantly squeezed my pillow and let out a roar. It was intense, then I changed the setting to pulsed and was taken on the rollercoaster ride of, "OMG I am going to cum", to heavy breathing, and then back to, "fuck this is incredible." I rode this ride for about 20 minutes until I could no longer take it, and had to manually masturbate. No hands free ejaculation this time, and most likely because of the pulsed setting.

In conclusion, this toy has become my new addiction. If you read my review of the Rude Boy, then you will know how much I loved that toy and still do. These toys are very similar and different at the same time. They both have separate places in my ass and heart. The Nexus Vibro is for lying on your side and letting it work its magic, and The Rude Boy is for sitting in a leather desk chair and riding that baby till your ass explodes. 

Thank god for all these new toys coming out - you have to love being a male and having all these possibilities. 

Read my Prostate terminology mini course here.

 

Any questions about the product, use, or how to bring up this type of play with your partner - shoot me an email. marcello219nyc@gmail.com

luv ya guys,

Marcello

xxoo

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Prostate Massage Terminology 101

Marcello's Crash Course On Prostate Massage Terminology 101

P- Wave - Can be described as goosebumps and tingles that are felt at the pubic bone, perineum and inside the anal cavity. As these pleasure waves become more intense they will begin to be felt throughout the whole body. This is the first sign that you are on the right track.


Super O - This is the "Holy Grail of Orgasms" - Whole body involuntary contractions and multiple hands free orgasms. This does not mean that you have to ejaculate, but at some point you most likely will.

Milking - Simply put - manual/mechanical stimulation of the prostate to produce a hands free orgasm with tons, repeat tons of ejaculate and prostatic fluid.

Perineum - The strip between the anal opening and the scrotum. I like to call it the ABC - Ass-Ball Connector.

Sweet Spot - This is a specific point on the perineum that the abutment tab of prostate massagers press on and stimulate. It takes practice, but I found a nice way to find this area is to lie down on your back, soles of feet touching and begin masturbating. Reach under your testicles and rub/press on your perineum in various places, until you eventually hit a spot that is very pleasurable to the touch. This is your sweet spot. Men, let me tell you this, once you find this spot your sex life will never be the same again. It equates to the area outside of the prostate. I can make my self orgasm just by using an hitachi wand on it, but this take practice "Young Luke"...LOL.

K-Tab - Some toys have a Kundalini attachment that presses on a spot above the anal opening towards the base of the spine. This sends pleasurable waves through out the body, and is also rooted in tantric practices.

Awakening of the prostate - After continued practice you may become more aware of your prostate, and you may experience p-waves randomly from time to time.

Rules of Prostate Massage: 1. Make sure your rectum is completely empty. 2. Use plenty of lube. If you think you used enough, use more - it helps make the toy mobile. 3. Relax, Breathe, Concentrate 4. Always buy from Babeland.

My Advice take it or leave it!

A lot of people give up quickly when it comes to prostate massagers because they are expecting a mind blowing experience the first time they use one. Is that possible? Yes, but very rare. It took me a few times to get acquainted with my first toy, but it was well worth the journey. For those whom engage in anal play already, but have not actually tried to orgasm in this manner, need to realize, like I did, that this is different. It will pay off with patience, I promise. With that promise comes this - I feel since I am reviewing and lovingly endorsing products for Babeland, and as your sex-toy reviewer it is my responsibility and my pleasure to answer any questions you may have about a product, it's use, concerns, or advice on how to bring the use of this toy or type of play up with your partner. Whatever the question, email me and I will respond as soon as possible.


love ya,
Marcello

hApPy hAlF-nEkKiD tHuRSdAy

hApPy hAlF-nEkKiD tHuRSdAy

I really thought the blurry motion photo came out cool, so I posted it.

I hope everyone is having a great summer, mine is so busy with buying into this office and all, but as soon as everything is settled, I promise new posts about sexuality, stories etc.

i freakin luv you guys,

Marcello

xxoo

Friday Morning Wood

Woke up horny and with wood. 

So I decided to start the day off right by watching some porn on the computer, and doing what comes naturally.

TGIF,

Luv you guys,

Marcello

PISCES 

[February 19–March 20] The world's oldest penises are 400 million years old. Discovered in Scotland in 2001, they're part of the fossilized remains of an arachnid species known as daddy longlegs. In reporting their find, the paleontologists marveled that the reproductive organ was two-thirds the size of the entire creature. Let's make this ancient genital a power symbol for you, Pisces. (If you prefer, you can focus on the 400-million-year-old daddy-longlegs vaginas that were also found.) I hope it inspires you to reconnect to the primal purity of your original erotic urges.

hApPy hAlF-nEkKiD tHuRSdAy

~ gO yAnKeEs ~

i fReAkInG lUv  yOu gUyS...

mArCeLlo

~ i lOvE bEiNg a pIsCeS ~

My pisces Horoscope for 7.06.08

I just love it!

If you could slip into a parallel universe today, all the colors would be perfectly matched while your favorite music played softly in the background. Fortunately, you don't need to travel to another dimension for everything to seem perfect now because perceptive Mercury is harmonizing with dreamy Neptune. Reach into your fantasies from where you are and strive to make one of them real.  -Rick Levine

Sugasm:138

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #139? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks

You’re going to come for me.
“I imagined her, bound. Wrists behind her back, whimpering.”

Champagne Orgasms
“I cry out, begging for him to stop, begging him not to”

Tie one on
“He slipped his hands under my blouse and teased my nipples and breasts with his strong hands.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Sugar Bank

Editor’s Choice
The Look

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wOoOoOo hOoOoOo.... iT's hApPy hAlF nEkKiD tHuRsDaY!

wHaTeVeR yOuR pLaNs aRe tHiS wEeKeNd, pLeAsE be sAfE, sMaRt & sExY!

i Am @ pLeAsuRe sAloN wItH fRieNds, aNd i wIlL cOmMeNt wHeN i gEt hOmE....

i fReAkIn lUv u gUys,

mArCeLlo,

xxoo 

Links: 6.27.08

The End of Public Sex
Why isn't anyone fucking anymore?
by Steve Weinstein

Chelsea Boys Comic Strip
Awesome!

4 Types of Women Men Avoid
I think this is funny!

What Women Want (Maybe)

Ny Times

Photo by dietrich

Friday Morning Wood

TGIF & Pride Weekend!

wOoOo hOoOo bAbY!

I woke up with a lot of wood and very horny, so I had to do what comes natural...and it felt so good.

Masturbation starts the day off right.

i fReAkIn lUv U gUyS,

Marcello

xxoo

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I decided to use the same undies as last week, but in a different color since they were such a hit.

 I also had an email request for an ass shot.....

Bottoms Up!

I freakin luv you guys,

Marcello,

xoxo

Trying To Understand Pain & Sexual Arousal, As Well As Unwanted Emotions From Certain Types Of Play

I was asked this question recently by Wendy, "what activities were Andrea and you into?" 

I had mentioned in previous posts that we had a very sensual dynamic to our play. We did not engage in things like CBT, humiliation, hitting, kicking or anything else that might be considered violent or torturous acts. Our activities were foot and body worship, nipple torture-not severe, strap-on play and sexual acts like rimming and orgasm denial. I was spanked, flogged and canned whenever she deemed necessary.  I always enjoyed it, and there was a certain way that she went about performing it. She would say to me in a stern, but sexy voice, "I do not want to do this, but you leave me no choice - if you were home with me last night I would have slept better and not been forced to do this to you." She would use her hand mostly to spank me, and always over her knee - it really turned me on.

I had tasks that I did everyday: draw her a bath, bathe her, pet her till she fell asleep (something I started to help her sleep better because of the anxiety she would feel because of a fear of bad dreams about her sexual abuse as a child). I cooked, cleaned and basically pampered her like a Goddess.

As our relationship progressed certain things were added to our lives like, watersports, sex and especially oral during mensuration, and very intense sensory deprivation. All of those activities were performed in a manner to bring us closer together. There was no, "drink my piss bitch" - it was taking part of her into me through the exchange of body fluids resulting in a closeness that both of us thrived on. Very intense feelings of love were exchanged during those activities. Till today I have never felt closer to anyone than I did at those times.

After we split up I found a play partner in Atlanta, and she basically beat the hell out of me while I zoned out. We never had sex, and till today I feel that I  was only there because I was hurting so badly - it was cathartic. Later on I met another dominant woman that had some of the sensual characteristics of Andrea, as well as a sadistic side. Our sex and play were kept somewhat separate. Sex was the reward for being obedient. I had a lot of other women later on that were not exactly dominant, but enjoyed breaking out of the vanilla role and getting kinky - strap-on play, tying me up etc.  

  

I never craved the pain aspect of BDSM. I like more of the sensual side with some ruff play that may hurt, but lately I have been exposed to different elements of the scene. While playing with Wendy, she decided to torture my nipples - 3 small clothespins that she flicked with her nails, pulled, twisted etc. Was I turned on? Yes, but as the pain became more intense I lost my arousal. It seems that my focus shifted from being turned on by the play, to concentrating on how intense the pain had become and I lost my arousal (including the erection). My nipples actually slightly bled. Now, I am not complaining because it was enjoyable in a different way. Maybe if we switched to something a little more sensual it would have returned, but I really don't know. She also likes to bite me, mostly on my shoulders, and I really enjoy it, and it hurts at times. Again it turns me on, but not like non-painful acts. Kissing someone, worshipping their body, feet etc. can get me rock hard in a second, and I don't know if I see that happening with pain. 

Something else I noticed about myself this weekend is how a certain act can rile me in a manner that is not expected. For example - I had the pleasure of meeting Jefferson this weekend at LPN, and while Wendy and I were chatting with him, he punched me in the chest a few times. My initial reaction was to stay calm and I did, but I had a feeling of apprehension. It brought out that street mentality that someone is hitting me and I need to fight back. Possibly this is an initial reaction that people experience the first time they are presented with impact play, or maybe I was just caught of guard. I grew up in a tuff neighborhood and had to learn to defend myself.  I've had my share of fights and I really hate violence, but if provoked I will defend myself. Not that Jefferson provoked me, but the impact brought that emotion out of me. I don't know how I feel about impact play, it brings out defensive feelings in me. Spanking is one thing, but being punched or kicked I don't know about. I also do not see myself submitting to a male, because to me it feels like losing - competitive streak from playing sports.  For me to be in a BDSM scene with another a male, it would be me being submissive with another male(also submissive) to a dominant women.

I also learned in the past week from Sakura how much shabari interests me and turns me on. Being tied and wanting to learn how to do the tying - I think it's an expression of my creative side.

In conclusion, I always share my truest feelings with you and I never hold back. This is what has been going through my mind for a while, and I am working through it and sharing it with you. 

Have you felt this way or in a similar manner? 

Luv ya,

Marcello

xoxo